1. MANY LADIES WILL END UP BEING
SINGLE FOR LIFE BECAUSE OF THE MEDIA EXPOSURE: It is so disheartening how a lady
will glue her eyes on a mobile phone from morning to night, only to raise it up
to focus on television to watch another celebrity entertainment channel. Tell me, what else
will dominate this lady’s mindset if it’s not how to live a fake celebrity life
being
promoted on television channels?
2. MANY LADIES OF
NOWADAYS DISLIKE COOKING AND DOING HOME CHORES: Just because they have been
totally brainwashed by movies showcasing men playing the role of women in a
family. Now, with this kind of attitude, how do you expect a man to desire to
marry you when he knows pretty well that he is only buying more headache and
trouble rather than a helper for himself? <<<Opportunity Checkout>>>
3. MODERN FASHION AND CRAZE FOR
GADGETS IS A GREAT BARRIER TO MOST LADIES FINDING LOVE AND MARRIAGE: How do we explain a single lady
whose only desire in life is to acquire the latest clothes in town, the latest
mobile phones and ipads to the detriment of her woman worth? How can a single
lady maintain this lifestyle for long without bowing low to immoral lifestyle?
How do you expect a man from a responsible family background, and who is in his
right senses to propose marriage to a lady whose utmost desire and concern in
life is to acquire costly electronic gadgets, clothes, jewellery, perfume name
them. Of course, majority of men would like to date such a trendy lady for fun
and show-off, but wouldn’t want to propose marriage even if she is earning the
money by herself because her expensive lifestyle already is a big turn off to
most responsible serious-minded single men. Only men that are out for fun will
be closely attracted to her, and her chances of getting a marriage proposal
from them is as slim as a camel passing through the eye of a needle.
4. EXCESSIVE MAKE-UP TURNS MOST
DECENT AND SERIOUS-MINDED MEN OR: If you have observed, you will discover that most men
dislike excessive make-up, and more don’t even like it at all. Excessive make-up
makes you look like an Egyptian Mummy. A slight make-up is okay, but if you are
out for marriage, try always to look simple and natural, it will attract better
men, decent and serious-minded men. Unless you are still living in your high
school life and not thinking towards marriage.
twitter
accounts because they may be doing you more harm than good, but you wouldn’t
know until you hit 35 years plus and still single and searching. No man would
want to marry a lady who jumps from one social network site to another because
it is a clear sign of an unfaithful lady or about to be unfaithful, yes, that’s how men view it. Who are you to have a thousands of friends on facebook,
same on twitter, maybe on wassap, 2go, twoo, BBM, badoo, eskimi, and you are
not even a celebrity?
5. STOP GIVING YOUR NUMBER OUT TO
EVERY DICK & HARRY: No man would want to propose marriage to a lady whose phone is always
ringing. A girl who is always on phone talking, chatting and laughing. You are
out on a date with a guy, but you keep on texting the whole date. Who is she
texting anyway? Same goes for you. Flip your phone over or turn it off. It’s
just disrespectful. Keep away your phone You may not be a playgirl, but he would
judge you as one, and will likely fee at the slightest chance or disagreement.
6. YOU DON’T BRING ANY VALUE INTO THE
LIFE OF MEN YOU DATE OR ARE DATING: Because your best friend married without contributing
anything to the man that finally married her doesn’t mean it will work
for you that way. Think and work towards equipping yourself so that you can be of value and also add value to his life. The kind of value that will convince him that you are worth committing to. Adding value to his life isn’t by giving him money or material gifts, nope….good counsels, being his best friend, helping him attain his goals in life, lending him moral, mental and spiritual support, and by not just being a liability that only bring requests and problems to be solved.
for you that way. Think and work towards equipping yourself so that you can be of value and also add value to his life. The kind of value that will convince him that you are worth committing to. Adding value to his life isn’t by giving him money or material gifts, nope….good counsels, being his best friend, helping him attain his goals in life, lending him moral, mental and spiritual support, and by not just being a liability that only bring requests and problems to be solved.
7. YOUR FRIENDS RUN YOUR LIFE: How do you expect to fnd a husband
when you still allow your clique of friends to be dictating which man you meet
is worthy of your love and which one is not? When will you wake up and face the
fact that even though those best friends of yours cherish you, most of them wouldn’t
want you to get married before them or you to get married to their best man.
8. YOU MOVE AROUND IN GROUPS: Often times, you miss the advance of
a good decent man when you move in groups, be wise. Again, men don’t always
fancy ladies that move around in groups because most ladies can only be
reasonable enough when you separate them from their group of friends.
9. YOU GIVE EVERYTHING OUT DURING
DATING: As a single
lady who has not been taken to the altar, you need to reserve some things for
your husband to be, especially your body, respect and preserve it at all cost.
In the past, men rushed to marry so as to get certain things or privileges they
had been constantly denied while being single. Such privileges include and not
limited to: constant s3x and companionship, good food and tidied home. But
today, a single man gets even the best and of course more of constant s3x, good
food and excellent home-keeping more than his married counterparts, so tell me,
how the hell do you expect him to get the desire of marrying you when you have
given him virtually everything he desires from a wife while being his
girlfriend? And the most painful part of it all is that he knows that you are
prepared to cut down on s3x supply, cooking, home-keeping once he marries you,
so why would he not want you to remain his girlfriend for life?
10. You Package Yourself Wrongly: In your attempt to look s3xy,
adorable and maybe appealing to guys, you have derailed from appealing to
appalling. In fact you look more whorish than modest, more dis-tr active than
attractive, and more disgusting than adorable. Your dressing style determines
who gets attracted to you most of the times. If you dress high school, only
high school-thinking guys will be attracted to you, and if you dress excessively s3xy and provocative, only randy
men will come to you for urgent satisfaction of their immediate s3x urge.
11. YOU LACK MANNER, CHARACTER,
WISDOM AND GOOD HOME UPBRINGING: Definitely, you are a ‘hot girl’, a ‘pretty girl’, a ‘s3xy
girl’. Looks will win you so many men, both good and bad, but your inner
beauty, your character and manner are the greatest things that will determine
whether any of these men will stay or run after accomplishing their evil
missions.
12. YOU ARE A LIABILITY: In as much as we know that the
present economy of the world in general is harsh, men and society in general
careless about how you react to this situation. Meaning? You are from a poor
family background, and you have no job or you are earning below $500 a month
but you want to wear designer clothes, shoes, jewellery and perfume. You also
want to carry Prada and Gucci hand bags. Who is going to foot the bills?
There are zillions of decent and honorable things you can do as a single lady to at least meet your own financial needs without slεεping around with men or depending on one man to supply all your needs.
Finally, cut your skirt according to your length. You are from a poor family, your parents earn below $500 a month, but you want to look like Rhianna, wear the same clothes she wears, you want to live a similar life Beyonce lives, and you want to dine in the costliest hotels and restaurants, and you are jobless or you are earning below $500 a month. Now tell me sincerely, how is it possible to achieve this foolish goal without patronizing immoral lifestyle to meet the insatiable demands?
There are zillions of decent and honorable things you can do as a single lady to at least meet your own financial needs without slεεping around with men or depending on one man to supply all your needs.
Finally, cut your skirt according to your length. You are from a poor family, your parents earn below $500 a month, but you want to look like Rhianna, wear the same clothes she wears, you want to live a similar life Beyonce lives, and you want to dine in the costliest hotels and restaurants, and you are jobless or you are earning below $500 a month. Now tell me sincerely, how is it possible to achieve this foolish goal without patronizing immoral lifestyle to meet the insatiable demands?
13. YOUR ROLE MODELS ARE TOTALLY
STRANGE AND BAD: If
you want to be a great woman tomorrow, start now to emulate great women- study
their foot paths, their lifestyle, their ways of life and try to inculcate their
lifestyle into your bad habits- poor manner and laziness in you. Stop looking
up to music stars and fake celebrity ladies as your only role model in life.
Please wake up before you end up single for life, for which I pray not.
Coming
soon: Why Single MEN Born In 80’s & 90’s Are Not Eager To Get MARRIED Today
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